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Employees Who Can't Get No Satisfaction

It is not real work unless you'd rather be doing something else. J.M. Barrie

My husband has a friend who finds fault with every woman he dates. He calls us up with stars in his eyes and announces he's found Ms. Perfect. Six months later, the litany of complaints start; she's divorced, she has children, she's too used to being single. She's too possessive or she's not emotionally available. And the 20-year pattern starts again.

Apparently, some people have the same attitude towards work. After struggling for decades to understand job satisfaction, researchers have discovered what human resource professionals have long known; some employees will be unhappy with their job no matter what. What they've discovered is that four personality traits - emotional stability, locus of control, self-esteem, and self-efficacy - relate to both job satisfaction and performance. Employees who are emotionally stable, have high self-esteem, have high self-efficacy, and an internal locus of control will be more satisfied with, and perform better at, their jobs than employees without these traits.

This isn't to say that job characteristics aren't important. Factors such as pay, work relationships, and opportunities for advancement are critical in keeping motivated employees motivated. But this finding also implies that there are certain employees who are predisposed to job dissatisfaction (and to giving their managers' headaches), and interviewers who know how to screen them out during the job interview will save their company time and money.

So how do you figure out in a 30 minute interview whose got a the right stuff to be happy at work? Let's look at each of these four personality characteristics and clues interviewers can gather to tease them out before they're hired.

Self-Efficacy: Your Confidence is Highly Overrated

Self-efficacy and confidence are often confused. Unlike self-efficacy, confidence refers to the strength of a belief but does not necessarily specify what the certainty is about. For example, I can be supremely confident that I will fail a test. Self-efficacy, on the other hand, refers to the belief that a person can perform at a certain level; in other words, self-efficacy means a person's self-perceptions of his or her competence.

But doesn't the interview situation itself encourage a person to exaggerate his or her self-efficacy? Certainly, asking a candidate "how confident are you that you can perform the job for which you are interviewing" is not likely to engender an honest response. However, questions that elicit beliefs about the specific tasks the person will be engaging in on the job are much more likely to shed insight into the person's self-efficacy. This is particularly true if the questions are followed up with role-playing scenarios that actually force the candidate to put those beliefs into practice.

Practical application: Conduct skills analyses on all your positions and ask for specific examples that reflect those skills. For example, if you are interviewing someone who will be working on a team, ask for stories about past experiences working in a team, question the person about how well s/he handles interpersonal conflict, and then have the candidate do a role-play to see how s/he performs. The more specific you can be about the necessary skills, the more accurately you can assess the job-candidate's work-related self-efficacy.

Locus of Control: Who's to Blame?

A person's locus of control is basically the explanation s/he gives him or herself for what happens in his or her life. Someone with an external locus of control sees fate, chance, luck or other outside events as responsible for his or her life circumstances, while a person with an internal locus of control takes responsibility for what befalls him or her. Obviously, in a work situation, a person with an internal locus of control, i.e., a person who believes s/he can have some impact on the quality of his or her job, is likely to be more satisfied than someone who feels at the mercy of his or her boss, workload, or schedule.

Practical application: When interviewing a candidate, listen for the explanations s/he gives for past job experiences - both positive and negative. Does s/he take responsibility for mistakes? Does he or she take credit for success? You want an employee who does both.

Predicting the Highs and the Lows

Self-esteem is probably the most popular buzzword in popular psychology. In a nutshell, it is composed of two factors - how much we value ourselves, our self-worth, and how much competent we think we are. Not surprisingly, it impacts virtually everything we do, what we believe, and how we feel. In particular, our self-esteem impacts how we relate to others. When our self-esteem is high, we are able to set appropriate limits and boundaries with others, to hear feedback without feeling threatened, and to respect and value differences. If our self-esteem is low, we feel vulnerable and are likely to either aggressively protect ourselves (alienating others in the process) or feel victimized and powerless. Neither of these, of course, bodes well for a happy job.

Practical application: Clues to self-esteem are often found in how candidates have responded to new and/or challenging work situations in the past. For example, ask for past experiences with negative feedback or criticism from a boss or coworker; how did s/he respond? Did the candidate quickly dismiss it, think about it for days on end, or was s/he able to listen and evaluate it objectively? How has the candidate handled his or her mistakes? Someone else's? The key is to look for a candidate who takes responsibility of his or her actions and feelings without trying to control others, is open to feedback but can't be easily manipulated by others, and sets appropriate limits without feeling guilty or taking advantage of others.

Emotional Stability: Is Your Candidate Grounded?

We all have our emotional ups and downs. Our ability to manage our moods in the face of everyday stresses is one of the secrets to job satisfaction. Emotional stability is the ability to handle pressure and stress, to consistently carry out responsibilities, and self-discipline. Sounds like a great employee - now how do you find him or her?

Practical applications: Emotionally stable employees are able to maintain a problem-solving attitude when dealing with a wide range of stressful work conditions. Ask your candidate about past experiences with stressful work conditions including interpersonal conflict, time pressures, unrealistic deadlines, and/or an inept boss. How does your candidate describe these situations? How did s/he cope with the increase in stress? Know the stressors inherent in the position your candidate is interviewing for, and look for a candidate who has handled these successfully in the past.

In closing, while there's no surefire way to hire a happy employee, there are clues in the interview that can point you in the right direction. In fact, while "he's got a great personality" may still be a hint that your blind date is no Antonio Banderas lookalike, at work they may be the magic words that your job candidate is the right person for the job.

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WORKRELATIONSHIP TRIVIA: : Does your workplace violence policy have a clause that specifically addresses domestic violence spillover at work? Homicide by domestic partners accounts for 20 percent of all deaths among women in the workplace compared to 11 percent of worker-on-worker homicides.

 

 

 

Dr. Joni Johnston,
President & CEO
 
"Welcome to WorkRelationships, Inc. -- helping companies manage risks and maximize profits since 1991. You can depend on us to solve your people problems, reduce your employment liability and increase the effectiveness of your workforce through training and consulting that gets results. Whether it's harassment and discrimination prevention, management skills training, or conflict investigation and mediation, we customize our services to meet your specific needs and concerns. At WorkRelationships, Inc., we do more than eliminate legal pitfalls -- we build healthy work relations."

WorkRelationships'
Monthly Stress Reliever: Employee Performance Appraisals From Saturday Night Live!

This Managing Work Relations stress reliever comes to you from comedyzone.com

Okay, we know the world is filled with wannabe writers, but employee performance appraisals are not the place to practice creativity. Here are three managers whose employee performance appraisals Suggest they are obviously boning up for their next job interview - as a writer for Saturday Night Live!

" This associate is depriving a village somewhere of an idiot." "

Works well under constant supervision and when cornered like a rat in a trap.

And now, for the winner of the most creative description of an employee in a performance appraisal, click here: http://www.workrelationships.com/

Coming next month..Vengeance is Mine (sayeth the defendent): Retaliation at Work
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